The realities of our children.

MSC archived stories - February 18, 2024

The face of Luz in her latest annual photo reminds me of a famous person, thanks to CI letter templates the children used in early years from which I knew a little of Mexico history. The realities of her recent life turning events only became known to me from her recent 'CR' letter (copy in media).

I just responded..

Dear Luz,

This week has been unusually warm in Scotland in the midst of Winter but expecting cold weather in the coming weeks before arrival of Spring. The second half of last year for me was a turning point of relocation and settling down to my new home.

In contrast, as I read your latest letter to me, how much turn of events happened for you, 'dhuwa'. I'm so very sorry to hear the loss of your grandfather. I still have the picture of you with him took when you came into my care. As a result, I'm even more saddened by you and your brother having to leave school to support your mom. I'm awaiting Children International to report me back with the details of your current family situation.

I'm sure you will have heard of the greatest painter, Frida Kahlo. A remarkable daughter of the Mexican nation. At the age 6 she damaged her right leg and foot to polio disease and age 18 a serious bus accident left her paralyzed. She was destined to study medicine but ended up exploring her interests in painting during her recovery. From her self-portraits how we all know true feelings of everyday life. She said, "I don't paint dreams or nightmares, I paint my own reality." I admire her the most because.. "I paint self-portraits because I am so often alone, because I am the person I know best." For me, if you can, I'd love you to visit the Frida Kahlo Museum in Mexico City.

She is an inspirational feminist icon, and I believe anyone in your situation can take courage from her to move forward. You have Children International and me to help you to get through the times, when you also turned 15 in last November. Was it your quinceañera party where you danced with your brother? I know of girls just like you in my care celebrating this milestone without their father. Do take care of yourself.

Love, Chelaka

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